Who is he dating
If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.
Moving Towards an Exclusive Relationship Assuming the “let’s be exclusive” conversation hasn’t happened, I would recommend you start to slowly but intentionally determine if he feels your relationship is headed in that direction.
If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.
We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.
I haven’t said one word about it since but I am wondering how long to wait.
Addressing the Active Profile Issue with Tact First off, let me say that this guy’s “reason” for keeping his profile online makes absolutely no sense to me.
I have read what you have written on this subject and I know you said that men are slower to remove their profiles than woman – so my question is how long is reasonable to wait for him to do this before you say something or begin to feel offended by it?
When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.
However, they called things off in May, and Bushnell has since moved on with Devin Antin. Hopefully soon I will be able to show somebody off."Meanwhile, Higgins also opened up a bit about his feelings regarding the newest Bachelor, Arie Luyendyk Jr."He's going to do fine," he said, though he admitted he thought Dean Unglert and Peter Kraus would have also made for two great options. He's old enough to be mature enough to go through this process and really try to find somebody."However, Higgins brought up the question we've all been asking since the announcement."None of us know anything about him, and I think that's the big question: Is anyone going to tune in?